If you want to use a harness- even to try it out, take my word and invest in the Joque...I wasted so much money on less expensive versions and configurations that simply left me and my partner frustrated. This harness is amazingly comfortable and versatile. The straps are so well designed to fit a wide range of body sizes while still cutting a cute form from the back (you'll love how your ass looks when you wear this!) You only have to fiddle with the major adjustments once- after that just unstrap one strap to take off/put on This is washable...I love leather, but the disinfection process is a drag and breaks down the leather. SO comfortable and can accommodate all but the most seriously (read- not human) inserts.

If you are looking for a fantastic strap-on that will please you and your playmate, look no further than the Tantus Strapless Strap on (FKA the Feeldoe). This toy's design includes a vaginal insert that not only provides the giver with additional control, but OH MY WORD...when I get to wear mine...it really allows both me and my taker to indulge in the pleasure of penetration. I have tried all types of straps ons (as a giver and receivier), and the Tantus wins on every count. Word to the wise- in my experience, this is not a completely "strapless" toy...I would still suggest getting some kind of harness to keep things from moving around *too* much (see my post on the Joque). The insert does work well for better control and less slippage, but the major attraction for me is the feel of it inside me... Works well for FF, FM, and TM/F,M,TM TF use.

Lelo products are all made with the highest quality standards and attention to pleasurable detail. The Gigi 2 is my favorite of a spectacular line of toys. Never squirted? Maybe you can now…